Friday, June 24, 2005

Healthy Dating Relationships - by Dr James Dobson

Ok here goes, basically Dr James has given us all 10 tips on trying to determine if the person you're dating is the right one for you.

1) You are each other's best friend, and you genuinely like being together. A recent survey indicates that for both men and women, this matter of friendship is considered the most important ingredient of all.

2) Communication is easy, natural and free. You feel that you can tell each other anything without fear of judgement or being put down.

3) You have numerous values and ideals in common and have both demonstrated the depth of your commitment to them.

4) You both think of marriage as a lifetime commitment, and you're firmly devoted to a permanent relationship.

5) When you experience conflict and disagreement, you're able to work it out instead of leaving it to simmer beneath the surface.

6) You love to laugh together. You're entertained by each other and share a sense of humor about the things in life.

7) You feel thoroughly known by your partner, and deeply cared for.

8) Your family and friends seem to be genuinely supportive of the 2 of you as a couple. You have confirmation of those who know you best and whom you trust the most.

9) You feel romantic about each other much of the time, but you feel comfortable and content with each other almost all the time.

10) You have a relationship that feels sane and safe and stable. You sense that there's a solid fit between both of you at many levels.

That's all. Just wanna share with all of you out there. So to those who are in a relationship now, how many points here do apply to your relationship?

Well wish you all out there all the best for your relationships.....

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